THREE!!! I can't believe you're 3 but it also has felt like you have been 2 for a super long time haha. You can be the sweetest of sweet and kiss our faces off telling us how much you love us and then you can be super sensitive and get upset if you feel like you disappointed us. It absolutely breaks us so we have been working on this a lot to improve our home. If we talk super softly and kindly to you when you are having a hard time/tantrum it REALLY helps and almost instantly calms you down. We try so hard so that we are always your safe place. It is our goal that you will feel loved and safe that you can tell us anything and be your truest self with us.
You have such a strong will to do good and you love to be rewarded and told you are doing a good job. You really thrive from this. When we focus on the good, it truly gets better and you behave so well. We can reason with you pretty good; you have very advanced thinking and really understand what we are saying if we tell you why or how we shouldn't be doing something. You started school this past year and you have truly loved it; I hesitated for awhile becuase your behavipr did seem to get a little worse but could've been an age thing too. You freeze up at school around adults but thrive great with your friends. You love Victoria and Fallon the most. You also started a legit dance class this month and its all you talk about! You wear your dance shoes daily, keep asking for the next ballet class (only once a week), and have done a few ballet YouTube videos as well. You are a great eater- sometimes picky and hate anything spicy, love to brush your teeth on your own, love mickey/minnie mouse as that's what we did for your party and you were in heaven, are a great sleeper, still nap great, and ask us every night if we will sleep with you. You've now started to ask for brother to sleep with you haha. You are such a good big sister and a truly amazing help to me (your Mom). You bring him toys or food to keep him happy, pick him up if he's doing something he shouldn't, bring him to me if he's upset, bring things to me like a daiper and wipes to help out etc. You are seriously such a good helper. You love him 90% of the time which is a huge improvement from when we first brought him home. You had a really hard time adjusting and sharing attention and sometimes still copy what he does when he receives attention instead of you. But now you giggle and play with him all day long- it's truly the best thing to hear you both laugh together. You are not good at sharing though haha- not one bit! But you both will learn :)
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